Survey reveals men's changing attitudes about sex in the UK

Four generations of UK men reveal distinct views on sex and intimacy in 2025.

Four Generations of Men Share Sex Lives in 2025

In a recent survey by Lovehoney, over 2,000 UK men express varied concerns about their sex lives, revealing generational differences in intimacy and communication. The findings highlight that 40% of men worry about their sexual performance, a figure that rises to 86% among Gen Z and 87% among Millennials. Leading health experts, like Dr. Anand Patel, underline the pressures men face today—balancing emotional openness with traditional masculinity. Four men from different generations, Gideon, Kian, Gil, and Keith, share their experiences, offering insight into how cultural shifts affect conversations and expectations around sex.

The survey underscores a significant cultural shift, revealing that even as some men embrace openness, deep-rooted anxieties about performance and communication continue to persist. The stark differences among generations indicate that while newer generations are more willing to discuss intimacy, they still struggle with issues of vulnerability and connection. This disconnect may foster environments where emotional needs go unaddressed, leading to potential misunderstandings in relationships. Experts warn that without addressing these emotional barriers, future conversations about intimacy may remain stifled, perpetuating cycles of anxiety rather than fostering healthy relationships.

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Further discussions are essential to dismantle ongoing stigmas surrounding masculinity and intimacy.